Your points are valid and I understand them all. But it wasn’t what the article was about. You’re responding to a response I made.
My article was about men who I know who’ve done work on themselves and are now trying to make better dating decisions. It’s not about age per se but a maturity that’s been reached I’ve noticed. A lot of older men are not childless and not without their own trauma and damage themselves. Younger women have just as much baggage as anyone else even if childless. It’s not about age comparing it’s more about men and women who have self improved, see the value in each other, and create a better dating pool regardless of age.