Shannon Vaughn
2 min readMay 18, 2022

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Sound bites, snippets for shock, entertainment value I understand. I never said he wasn’t giving sound advice. What I did say was his delivery and choice of words is what had women up in arms. The way you say something to someone and how it’s received can make or break. Everyone can’t be painted with a broad brush. You can still speak to people with a level of compassion and respect. Even if it doesn’t stand a chance at going viral. And that was one of my points of the whole article. We all should be careful of our words.

Whether we realize it or not we are all leaving this earth with a legacy. How do we want people to remember us? Speak about us? What or how would someone feel about us in our passing? That’s what the article was mainly about.

I didn’t watch more of him because I don’t have to. Everything on the internet isn’t for everybody. Discernment is key.

I’m not here to debate why men aren’t marrying because I don’t know. Nor am I sure what their definition of a “fit” wife is. If a man that has value can get married anytime then why aren’t they marrying? Value should attract value. A man then chooses.

You’re right. Marriage is risky. It’s risky for men and women. Marriage is not for the faint of heart or for those who lack a certain knowledge and tools to apply that knowledge. If you know you know. If you don’t you don’t.

And to your last point, I don’t date women so I can’t speak to what that’s like. But yes, I do want men to care about commitment who want to commit. I’m not talking to the others. Commitment works for those who know what they’re doing.

In 2022 people are still getting married, Joey.
Whether you see the benefits to it or not.

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Shannon Vaughn
Shannon Vaughn

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