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Single Again? 5 Ways To Increase Your Single Market Value (SMV)
Getting back out on the dating scene can be daunting. Especially if you’ve been absent awhile. Though the players may have changed; the game never does.
To increase your chances of winning at the dating game, here’s some upgrades you may want to consider:
#1 Forgive Yourself
And others specifically your ex. This is a process and takes time. But if you do the work and understand it will be easy. Acknowledge your own contributions to the breakup. Taking responsibility in your own actions tend to knock a chip or two off the old bitter block. Less attention on them and what they did is now on yourself and how you can improve.
#2 Look Toward The Future
What do you want? Is it to remarry? Or the ability to fall in love again? Is it to have healthy, meaningful, loving relationships? Seeing the bigger picture aids in developing present actions towards that. You won’t get there if the road traveled doesn’t lead there.
#3 Work On Yourself
Are there any bad habits you want to get rid of? Practice healthier habits. Declutter your home and closets. Upgrade your wardrobe piece by piece. Invest in yourself. Take the class or learn the skill you always wanted…
