Jan 24Member-onlyReal Spill: Mind Your Money5 ways I’m changing my money habits — The new year has brought some new perspectives to heart and mind. Namely financial. Not certain what it is or where it’s come from, but it must be necessary for elevation to the next level because I’m sticking with it. Here’s five ways I’m changing the way I view and spend money #1 Ceasing the purchase of alcohol I’ve done this before in the past. In no way…Money3 min readMoney3 min read
Published in Beloved·Jan 23Member-onlyOne man’s reason for never desiring marriageThe answer may surprise you — More and more the echoes of how marriage doesn't benefit men become louder and louder. Some are from men who have tried it. Others who have not. At any rate, I think it’s something every man should try at least once. For men who would marry, there’s men who would…Men2 min readMen2 min read
Published in The Shortform·Jan 20Member-onlyWhen People Show You Who They Are…Believe ThemYour life depends on it — Abusive Relationships1 min readAbusive Relationships1 min readPhoto by benjamin lehman on UnsplashWhen People Show You Who They Are…Believe ThemYour life depends on it----1
Published in Beloved·Jan 18Member-only“What Does a Woman Bring to the Table?”Time to bury this question for good — Disclaimer: This post isn’t for men still mad at the girl who told them no to the 8th grade dance. Nor is this for those who choose to be single. This is for men who are genuinely asking the question what do women bring to the table besides sex. I…Dating3 min readDating3 min read
Jan 12Member-onlyReal Spill: Life is shortSome years ago I wrote about nearly deleting my FaceBook page for good. A former classmate of mine, 15 month old son died in a car accident. As a mom, it was heartbreaking for me. Can’t imagine what her and his father went through. Time went on and she and…Death2 min readDeath2 min read
Published in The Shortform·Jan 12Member-onlyI Was a Failure At Marriage. You Will Be Too.Three lessons learned on what not to do — Marriage1 min readMarriage1 min readPhoto by cottonbro studioI Was a Failure At Marriage. You Will Be Too.Three lessons learned on what not to do----2
Published in Beloved·Jan 5Member-onlyLadies, Stop Being an Open Book!The harm in telling men too much too soon — Never in the history of sports, has a team given opposing competition their playbook. Ever. What does a team have to do to increase the odds of beating the competition? They have to scout, watch game film, compile team and individual statistics, etc. …Dating3 min readDating3 min read
Jan 5Member-onlyBefore kicking love to the curb…For those considering walking out the dating door for good At one point I was considered lucky by the unlucky in love. Apparently, I’d hit a home run my first at bat. My 20’s weren’t spent dating all the wrong guys, stranded with heartbreak, disease, or a baby. Oh no…Love2 min readLove2 min read
Published in Beloved·Dec 29, 2022Member-onlyHardcore truths about datingThat no one wants to hear — Sooner or later, men and women will have to come to terms with reality regarding the dating world. And no, I’m not talking about the “reality” of there being no good people to date. I’m talking about the real reality our social media-obsessed minds refuse to see. Each gender thinks…Dating4 min readDating4 min read
Published in The Shortform·Dec 14, 2022Member-onlyI hit 1,000 followers!Been a long time comingWriting1 min readWriting1 min readPhoto by rovenimages.com via PexelsI hit 1,000 followers!----5
