Think about this. 90’s R&B introduced Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, a young Beyonce, Brandy, Monica, and Aaliyah most notably. Absolute legends in their own right. But there is another 90’s singer that has stood the test of time; Mary J. Blige. Like many, I’ve been a fan since her debut…

Nothing tops movies like in the 90’s. Still, you won’t find better soundtracks outside the ’90 to early 2000’s era. Don’t think so? When’s the last time you streamed a song from a black film? Gotta think for a minute, I know. Imma tell y’all like I tell my son…

You don’t want him — Y’all are gonna have to really read and understand this. Or you’re gonna trip this up if you don’t see what I see. And I see relationship coaches suggesting to single women to revisit men they’ve friend zoned or have overlooked as complete hogwash. As women, considering men we hardly…

Because we all have them — Do me a favor. Go to YouTube and enter ‘red flags in dating’. Watch a video or two. I betcha some of them apply. Cross-referencing myself across some of the lists, apparently my being a single mom, strong, and independent, sets off alarms. Well, I’m just over here living my…

Headline: 16-year-old shot, killed by officers I first heard wind of this story in the salon. Another stylist and her client were talking about the police officer shooting of a 16 year old boy in our city. Apparently, he and a group of people were spotted with guns at a gas station at 11:30pm, by drug…

The worst question to ask a man Show me a man with a long term girlfriend, and I’ll show you a man who’s decided she’s not his wife (on average). Sure, we all know of exceptions to this rule. Hell, you may be one of them. Fortunately for heads who…

A husbands take on marriage, money, and manhood — This article is gonna catch some heat. But f**k it. The last post brought the manosphere troops out. So this go round, I interviewed a real man, and he wants ALL the smoke. In contrast to what’s being seen or unseen online, my good friend was more…